Today, still moving along with the ‘Nemesis’ series of Posts, I ask that you take the opportunity this Mother’s Day to consider some emotional healing with your relationship with your Mother [UK 14th March/US 9th May - click for yours if different]. Yes, I know you have been waiting for years for her to change, before you can truly & emotionally accept her. But here’s the trick – people very rarely change so as to accommodate us! It is always US who have to do the changing, the re-perception as it were of what the situation actually entails. In fact I will go as far as saying: these people in our lives – the ones we have the most difficulties with, are actually the ones who teach us the most. Again here I may be out on a limb, but suppose we actually put these specific people in place on our ‘blueprint of life’ before we actually got here for evolutionary reasons? Suppose instead of seeing people as challenging and damaging, we were to see them as puzzle pieces to our ‘soul quest’ in this life. That would turn the situation right around – instead of being the ‘victim’, we would now be the one moving into ‘self-responsibility’. Instead of being in the backseat as a passenger on a dangerous ride to nowhere, we could now become the driver – the one in control of the how’s & where’s of this particular journey. How does this sound? Probably good – as I am assuming you have exhausted every avenue on this particular issue and put in the hours of various therapies, which is why you may be reading this now. So let’s have a look at how using Matrix Energetics & The Yuen Method can help you to begin to identify new possibilities.
Energy tips for today:
- Using Matrix Energetics you ‘drop down’. See the excellent Glossary in Dr Bartlett’s 2nd book ‘The Physics of Miracles’ for a detailed description of this term. Basically it is a change within, from head-centred consciousness to one of heart-centred awareness or ‘emotional intelligence’. In this place we let go of all distracting monkey-mind chatter, of the regret and remorse of the past, and the fear and anxiety of the future – here we drop down into a pure theta state (7-4) cycles per second. And as we hold this state we access the right brain and it’s subconscious awareness – in this amazing space we are able to notice and not analyse or judge.
- Using a Yuen Method basic – we next bring our awareness to the ‘central line’ ie our spinal cord – visualise it in it’s entirety and hold your awareness there. This is your neutral point – this is where you cannot be pushed or pulled – this is where you maintain your strength – this is where you alleviate all stress. To strengthen this place within, you can also put your hand on your chest on the midline – notice this is something we all do subconsciously sometimes to calm ourselves. Another energy tip is to place your tongue on the roof of your mouth to the front – as you do in yoga. As well, turn your toes inwards – this will help with strengthening this neutral place within. Use these tips to calm all stress in the presence of difficulties whether with a person, or a situation.
It is vastly humbling as a mother myself to realise that as mothers we come to the job with own ‘hurts’, mostly oblivious to the harm that we pass down to our own children, until we finally learn to see the big picture. If I consider my mother, her mother before her, and the mothers on my father’s side of the family now passed, I see and feel their ‘hurts’. However I also see them as human’s, being all they could, and totally congruent with the knowledge of their times. It is our job as children of those women to strive for more with our children – to be more congruent with the world as it is today – to not get bogged down as we head towards 2012. As a beautiful being I have had the pleasure of meeting, called David Hand says “With each passing lifetime, humankind has endlessly played out every conceivable permutation of the human condition. People have played each role time and time again. Every situation explored to exhaustion. Whether the lessons have been learnt well or not, this school is about to close”.
Before this school of life closes, and on this Mother’s Day let us celebrate Motherhood, and the Divine Goddess, (whether remembered or not by our Mothers)! Let all the frustration and despondency, the hopelessness just drain from our bodies. Let us be aware from moment to moment that this is a journey of awareness, where we learn to see ourselves as we truly are – and make no mistake about it – our outcome will totally depend on what we find, when we fearlessly look within.
I promise you – if you can make this change within yourself about another person – watch the speed at which that very person makes a giant step forward, affecting beneficial changes within your situation.
Until later . . .
Kaye Tench is an intuitive and advanced energy therapist using Matrix Energetics and The Yuen Method to facilitate health & transformation for her clients in the UK and around the world. Kaye is passionate about the new quantum ‘consciousness technology’ and its’ impact on energy healing and our spiritual evolution, and at www.kayetench.com she shares these holistic strategies with her clients, coaches, and other healing arts practitioners.
